People can't talk anymore

Reflections on people not being social
Nov 7, 2023
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People can’t talk anymore: 

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People can’t talk anymore.

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They can’t sit.

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Undistracted by their cell phone.

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Or other forms of technology.

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We don’t listen.

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We don’t follow-up.

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We aren’t genuinely interested.

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We’re too in our head.

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Distracted.

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Jittery.

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Anxious.

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People don’t show interest.

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They’re too selfish.

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They don’t ask follow-up questions.

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They aren’t genuinely curious about other people.

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Don’t be like that.

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Please.

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Be interested in others.

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Stop looking at your phone when talking to people.

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Ask follow-ups.

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Be interested in them and who they are.

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I hate it.

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Happens with my brother now.

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Buddy’s never interested.

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Never asks follow-ups.

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Always distracted by his phone.

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Always somewhere else.

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Never in the present moment.

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Never interested in people.

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It’s sad.

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I hope that changes.

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Not for him.

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But for you.

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Learn how to talk to people.

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‘How to Win Friends and Influence People’ is the best for it - my notes are here.

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It will genuinely change your life.

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Warren Buffet said the public speaking course put on by Dale Carnegie, the same author was the best investment he’s ever made.

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Made him more confident and friendly.

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That book will do the same for you.

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Soft skills will win in an AI world.

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Being distracted, passive and not interested in other people will not.

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Please, for your sake.

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Be interested in others.

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'Keep Going You're Doing Great'

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