Why do you work so hard?

Why do you work so hard?

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Why do you work so hard?

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Why?

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What’s the point?

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To make money?

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To buy stuff?

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To live in a bigger house?

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To go on a lot of vacations?

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Why?

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Ask yourself.

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Most people run on a treadmill their whole lives.

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Never asking themself this basic question.

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Why?

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Why do you work so hard?

What’s the point?

A lot of people get by without working so hard.

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This post is not for them.

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This is for you.

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The person who’s always working.

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Who’s always grinding.

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Who’s always thinking about the next win.

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Why?

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Why do you work so hard?

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For me, it was money and status for a long time.

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Become a doctor to make my parents happy.

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Make a lot of money to show them and the world I could do it.

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Never stop working till you made more money than you could imagine.

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But what’s the point if you lose yourself along the way?

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What’s the point if you lose close relationships along the way?

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I’ve been in Tokyo the last few days.

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Staying at one of the nicest hotels in the city.

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According to the front desk, Lebron James stayed here recently.

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It’s nice.

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Like really nice.

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Very Ex Machina vibes.

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That kind of place.

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We were out all day in Tokyo yesterday.

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Went to Team Labs.

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Incredible.

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Then go carted around all of Tokyo dressed in a Minion onesie.

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It was a core memory.

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Something I’ll never forget.

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We ended up back at the hotel and before I went to bed, I went to the pool by myself.

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Really nice pool.

Reminds me of one of those pools you see in movies at billionaire’s houses.

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Like too nice.

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It was just me, swimming back and forth a few times before relaxing in the jacuzzi.

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I kept thinking.

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This is it.

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This is what my parent’s hard work has given me.

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But it didn’t feel that great.

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I was alone.

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It was just me.

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There was no one to share that experience with.

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I’ve read and listened to many successful old people talk about this.

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Most billionaires are miserable.

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Always chasing money and losing relationships in the process.

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What’s the point of making so much money if you can’t spend it with anyone?

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My therapist made me realize this.

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She asked me this question at the end of last year.

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‘Describe your happiest moments in 2023.’

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Two came to mind.

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One was dancing with my siblings and parents at a pre-wedding party in New Delhi under the stars with our family friends.

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The other was singing a decade-old song with a university friend who went through a really difficult time and thought about committing suicide.

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Described both of those moments and she said ‘what do those have in common?’

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‘I don’t know.’ I responded.

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‘They were both with other people. 

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They weren’t alone.

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No matter how much you achieve, and you will achieve a lot because it’s hard-wired into you, you’ll never be happier than when you’re doing stuff with others.’

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That was a big realization for me.

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Why work so hard and make so much money if you can’t have experiences with the people you love.

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That’s the point.

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Enjoy your time here with the people you love and who love you.

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That’s why I work so hard.

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Why do you?

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